My thoughts went something like this:
Hey, is that Stephanie from college over there? I haven't seen her in ages! What are the chances that she'd be in the same airport at the same time? [upon closer inspection] Wait, that's not her. Though that woman is the same height and has the same blonde hair... But wait, that man over there has to be Kevin that I met during that college campus tour several years ago, right? I met him in California after all, maybe he lives around here? [upon closer inspection] No, that's not him. Though that man is the same height and has similar glasses...
Basically my facial recognition skills for non-Japanese faces had apparently degraded in the months that I'd lived in Japan...
I also found that many everyday things and events in the US had become surprising to me...
Once I arrived in Boston my mom and brother picked me up from the airport (luckily I recognized them). Even though it was around midnight I was wide awake due to the time difference and blabbed about who-knows-what as we headed back to my mom's condo. As we were driving I couldn't get over how wide the roads were, and as we got onto the Mass Pike (Massachusetts Turnpike) I was a little freaked out by how many lanes there were (I mean cars could pass us on both sides!). Don't get me wrong, there are multi-lane highways in Japan, there just aren't any where I live. The closest real highway to Minamisanriku is called the Sanriku Expressway and it is usually one lane wide (though there are two when you approach exits and merging lanes). Cars can also go much faster on US highways, oftentimes the speed limit is 65 mph (~105 km/h) in MA but on the Sanriku Expressway the speed limit is about 43 mph (70 km/h). Anyway it wasn't until the next day that I noticed how big the cars are in the US; even the smallest ones would get a white license plate in Japan.
The roads are so wide!
When I got to my mom's place not only did it seem very large but there were tons of places where one could sit down. There was a dining room table with four chairs, two tall bar-stool-type chairs by the kitchen counter, and a couch and armchair in the living room (and that was just the first floor)! In fact, overall things in America seemed way more comfortable and convenient than they are in Japan.
I noticed that:
- buildings were warm inside (even places like closets and hallways)!
- windows were double-paned and thus fog-proof!
- kitchens had ovens and dishwashers!
- not only were there washing machines, there were also dryers!
- there were no squat-type toilets!
- every sink had a hot water supply!
- roads were plowed!
So much snow but the roads are kept clear!
In fact, everything was so convenient that it made me a bit angry. I think that it was partially because all of the above things on the list are so difficult in Japan but mostly I was angry because no one in the US seems to appreciate all the things that make their lives so easy!
Anyway, on a more positive note I got many hugs from my family members which I wasn't really used to after all the bowing that I do in Japan. I was also happy that I finally felt literate again since I could read all of the signs, warning labels, and even advertisements again. In addition, everything seemed very close-by; there were two movie theaters less than 20 minutes away!
I had created a list of food to eat before arriving in the US and I managed to eat at least a piece of the following:
sourdough bread
wheat bread
balogna
ham
a piece of a full-sized cake (not roll cake!)
a piece of pie
coffee ice cream
peppermint bark
several bagels
several muffins
gingerbread
croissant
Cape Cod potato chips
Chips Ahoy! cookies
Smartfood popcorn
baked Cheetos
Regina pizza
Panera panini
Trader Joe's chocolate
Mom's pot roast
Mom's macaroni and cheese
My brother, Mikey, and I drove up to Maine to visit some friends and I couldn't get over how flat everything seemed. Massachusetts has its share of hills (left over from glaciers and whatnot during the last ice age) but it's nothing compared to most of Japan. The hills and mountains in Japan are so steep that they cut into the horizon wherever you look but in the US you can see the entire sky.
I took several pictures of sunsets while I was back home...
Our friend's Bernese mountain dog sitting in the snow
There were only a few other things I noticed in the US after I had been there for a few days:
- lack of surgical masks - people are obsessed with them in Japan and will wear them to prevent illness - which does not work just so you know
- perfect teeth - wow, you can tell that it's an obsession in the US
- cheap prices - I mostly noticed at the movies and at the gas pump - I created the following table using today's information:
Of course there were some changes around my hometown as well but to be honest I think there were more changes to Minamisanriku in the three weeks that I was gone. I'll have to take pictures around town again to show you what I mean...